All the self-help people tell us not to think about the “What if’s”. They say, “It’s about the NOW people, no what-iffing.” But my WHAT IF reality check helps pull us into the now by challenging the idea that we aren’t enough.
I believe there are a couple of things we can do that will help draw us out of the comparison trap to live more fully (oh, and also a teensy, little share about my recent dive-bar ‘athletic’ injury)…